In the results, I found a few links to a few fellow bloggers who have blogrolled me and a couple of the blogging sites that gave me awards and stuff. But the most staggering result of them all was this entry. Right at the middle of this screenshot titled ‘Queer Blogging in Indian Digital Diasporas’. If you notice further, that this link leads to a scientific research publication by a couple of researchers - Queer Blogging in Indian Digital Diasporas: A Dialogic Encounter by Mitra and Gajjala Journal of Communication Inquiry.2008; 0: 0196859908321003v1. Crazy stuff!
Since curiosity has imposed itself on me several times causing upswings in my feline mortality, and because I couldn’t access the publication as it was not available for free download, I decided to write to these authors asking if I could get a copy of it. I was surprised to see a prompt reply by one of them expressing their happiness to provide me with the publication.
It was a internet research paper about how the internet has influenced the Indian gay community. I went through it and found this rather ‘cute’ entry about my blog right up at the first part of the publication. Apparently the Talking Closets blog mentioned my blog in this entry back in 2005. This is what is said in that entry.
This one is actually going to be about gay blogging, and not just me spewing out crap about my erratic and erotic escapades (though some would say, that's what I do best.). Indian gay blogging, to be precise. I've always wanted to find out some guys in India who blog about their homosexuality, whether openly or from within a closet, and I found a couple of them, the other day.Isn’t this crazy? And you don’t even know where your rants can reach – even to universities in the US who apparently study our blogs! It turns out that the person who writes this blog is Mr. Rahul Mitra, a co-writer of this article. He also maintains this other blog Living High.
My favourite is Kris', to which I've added a link on the right hand side. Kris is a gay doctor somewhere in Bombay, who saves lives by day and dreams of men by night. Wow - a hot Baywatch hunk gone gay? hehehe.. I wish! (which doesn't mean that he's not, of course.....!) The reason I like Kris' posts? They're amazingly easy: they're about a life, and the fact that he's gay is not the be-all and end-all. There's no sermonizing about gay people - and that's great. In the last few days, I've come across a couple of gay blogs which are full of activism - and it simply leaves me cold.
I did a little search on his blogs about me and my blog. All I could find was this surprising invitation to one mumbai gay blogger party back in 2005. He invited me and Vikster for this party. I don't remember receiving any invites back then. And hence, I didn't respond. I guess that pissed him off as you can't find my blog on the 'right hand side' in his blogs!
Since reading this, I have exchanged a few e-mails with Dr. Gajjala and Mr. Mitra. They are very interested in knowing more about me and other gay bloggers. They have indicated that they would wish to start communicating with all who are interested. For those interested, send me an e-mail (you can find it on the blog somewhere).
(PS: If you thought that this post was very self-indulgent and narcissistic, I am sure it is. But it was fun!)
15 comments:
i didn't know you're a doctor! (well, i'm still new here, hehe.) what sort? and you perform in a band too... is there anything you don't do?
and that's one hell of a blogging ego trip - to be studied by academicians! i wouldn't mind mine being dissected by psychologists or the like, though i'm not sure if i'd like what was written. i bet 'insecurity' and 'neuroticism' will be the keywords in that paper, haha.
have u linked any screen shot????? why cant i see?? :( congrats though!
@ Sulz: I'm an orthopaedician. I perfrom in a couple of bands too. Things that I don't do - I don't chase pretty women around. Well you never know, you might just be under the magnifying glass as we speak.
@ Reema: Sorry, that was a mistak. I corrected the error. Some html error. Now you can see that! Thanks!
a gay doctor somewhere in Bombay, who saves lives by day and dreams of men by night
They should have added that this doc is hot and added a pic of you with a guitar ! ;-)
who said self-indulgent and narcissistic is bad ? ! ;-)
You are just popular and you are getting more visits to your blog because I visit like 10 times a day your blog and swats ;-)
wow! A mini-celebrity to a celebrity?! Congrats! :)
Congrats dude! It is great to know I have such celebrities as my friends. Happy Onam to you as well. The Ona sadhya that my amma prepared was really good. How did yours go?
@ Prash: LOLz! Well, I suppose. But actually I am getting a lot of 'unique page views' over a hundred a day actually! ;)
@ Myheadtrip: Cool, isn't it!
@ Crazy Sam: Dude, I totally missed this years. You obviously know that I'm not with my Mom. I missed the thiru onam totally. I have my bandmate's (S./E-boi) granny cook us a feast on Saturday. That will be my Onam feast!
Kris u r really famous ya..and I mean it..From Shobha De to this guy..every1 is in awe of u..every1 is raving abt ur blog..hmmmmmm ;-)
Keep up the good work!
Kris, this is very interesting. In fact I guess being different has its advantages! But I do admire your courage in being openly gay.
@ Swats: LOL! Thanks for the ego massage!
@ Nita: There are so many people out there who are open and gay. Gay activism and being out is in! Yeah, being different is a blessing sometimes!
Kudos to you about ur integrity throughout the process of being open..u never over do anything,we need more people in the world with ur ease and self confidence..
If only their were...
@ Vaneeza: First time I'm seeing you here! There are more people like me. But they aren't taking their chances. And by chances, I mean opportunities.
Hey, I follow the google alerts for homosexuality + India, that's how I landed on this blog.
I wrote a post sometime back which my give you links to some more gay bloggers in India.. here it is..
http://sanjukta.wordpress.com/2008/01/26/mrgay-india/
Am very glad to see this blog. India needs more gay people like you to come out of their closet. Some time back I said this and people started arguing with me saying things like - whether to come out or not is a personal choice, the environment is just not right, you have Section 377, coming out is not easy and blah..
I still think Only if the number of people calling themselves queer is large enough and the faces known enough will the society realize it is not something so unnatural after all. And this responsibility lies with the LGBT people themselves to come out of their closet and be confident of their sexuality.
Hey this is great. The world is getting more open I guess.
@ Sanjukta: I'm glad you find this blog socially relevant.
@ Solitatire: The world is getting more open! And your photo is really cool!
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