Jun 16, 2011

To become a father

I want to be a father. I am already 31 years old and I think within the next 9 years or so, I have to figure out a way to become a father. Or else, I will be too old to be one. There are many criteria that need to be satisfied, I think, before I can think of becoming one.

A huge bank account
A steady, healthy life
A stable, live-in partner/spouse

Once I have the pre-requisites, I have two options: surrogacy or adoption. I would prefer surrogacy to adoption because there will be an element of my lineage being upheld in the long run. However, with the increasing population, it would be foolish to bring another child into this overpopulated world.

The other day, there was a debate on single parent (single male parent) adoption on television. Apparently, they are trying to bring in laws to make things more difficult for single parents to adopt. They seem crazy and most of the panelists on this debate seemed to disagree.



On a funnier note, when I introduced the idea of me desiring to become a father to my Mom, she expressed dismay in an e-mail reply, which went something like this: ‘Well, if you want to become a father, you would have to marry a girl. If you don’t do that, how can you have a child?’

8 comments:

Mind Of Mine said...

I have wanted to be a father for the longest time. I am almost feeling broody. However in an ideal situation I would be the childs sole legal guardian and I would not require a partner to raise him or her.

Kris Bass said...

Where do you live? In India?

Mind Of Mine said...

No, I am from Ireland but I have lived in Manchester, England for the last 4 years.

Kris Bass said...

Things are much simpler there, aren't they?

Mind Of Mine said...

Yes, in comparison to countries where it is incredibly difficult to be gay in for fear of being shunned or even killed.

Kris Bass said...

India isn't that horrible! ;-)

Pari said...

Go for it, KK. You will be one awesome dad :)

Kris Bass said...

Thanks Pari! Mwaah!